If you are thinking about how to get back with your ex for the next couple of days or weeks, it is necessary for you to be clear about the very reasons why you would want it to happen at the first place. You must know if you really wanted the relationship with your lover again, and you should be honest in remembering the things that made your past relationship work for quite some time, and the reason or reasons why you two broke up. You should remember if you were giving out too much of yourself to your ex back then, or if your ex was the one being used by you so as just to prove your prowess in attracting women. If you would answer yes to any of these, then consider making some changes to yourself to make it work the next time, before make up with your ex partner. You should change for good, and think about the consequences of returning to your ex.